Marriage and Love + FOREX UPDATE

HOW TO MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE WORK

(Important truths to know about marriage for married couples)

Good day everyone, and how was your weekend. For the next few days..., we shall

all be looking at certain tips that can help you to understand your spouse and how your love can grow for each other as a couple.

 

Communication & Conflict :

Success in business, education or sports will not satisfy the longing of the human heart for emotional love. When emotional love evaporates, marriages slip into fall and then winter. Conversely, when emotional love is rekindled, the warm breezes of spring and summer return to the marriage. I want to focus on the nature of emotional love as it relates to marriage. This has the potential to change the emotional climate of your marriage.
 

It all begins with "the tingles." In the normal course of life, we meet someone who catches our attention. There is something about the way he or she looks, talks or acts that gives us a warm tingly feeling inside. The tingles are what motivate people to go out with each other.
 

Sometimes, on the first date, we lose the tingles. We find out something intolerable about the other person and the tingles dissipate. But with some people, every time we get together, it just gets tinglier and tinglier. Eventually, we find ourselves emotionally obsessed. We're quite certain that he or she is the most wonderful person we've ever met.
 

Everyone else will see the flaws, but we won't. Our parents may say, "Have you considered that he hasn't had a steady job in five years?" But we'll respond, "Give him a break. He's just waiting for the right opportunity." Our friends may ask, "Have you considered that she's been married five times before?" But we'll respond, "Those other guys were losers. This woman deserves to be happy, and I'm going to make her happy."
 

This stage of a romantic relationship can best be described as emotional obsession. We can't get the

other person off our minds. We go to bed thinking about him, and we wake up thinking about him. All day long, we wonder what she's doing. Talking with her is the highlight of our day, and we want to spend as much time with her as possible.
 

This obsession leads to irrational thoughts such as, I'll never be happy unless we are together forever. Nothing else in life really matters. In this stage of love, differences are minimized or denied. All we know is that we're happy, we've never been happier, and we intend to be happy for the rest of our lives.
 

This euphoric stage of love does not require a lot of effort. We are swept along by a river of positive emotions. We are willing to do almost anything for the benefit of the other person.
 

It is during this time of emotional obsession that most people get married. They anticipate that they will continue to have these euphoric feelings for each other forever. They fail to understand that emotional obsession is only the initial stage of romantic love. (Psychologist and researcher Dorothy Tennov, in her classic bookLove and Limerance, concluded that the average duration of this initial euphoria is two years.) To be continued tomorrow. Stay tuned.

 


 

 FOREX UPDATE

There's a green light with the audcad. We are hoping that latest by friday we will be able to sell since market will go southward.

COMPACTIBILITY VS LOVE + Forex Update

COMPACTIBILITY VS LOVE

Many times, we chose because we found love. Ohhhhh, we say its love at first sight! I cannot just tell, her eyes stole my heart. Or the way she walked was what set my soul on fire!
Nonsense, which dirty soul did she set on fire!

This is the error and many times our parents do not even advice us rightly because even they themselves are dysfunctional.

The first thing you need to look for is compatibility. If you admire Miss Nigeria, the first thing is to get to know her. Find a way to talk to her. Become friends on the day and not night friends otherwise na another talk e go be.
 

Look for qualities and not quantities.
Search her innermost heart and not her innermost body. Look for friendship.  If she can be a good friend, then she can be a good wife.

The error we make is that we begin to look for love and when we are through with the marriage, we now begin to fight for how we can stay as husband and wife. The fight becomes so terrible that the husband gets home only at 11pm because his wife is a WWF Champion.

And the wife needs a companion and not a sex machine who knows nothing more than sex. So she finds another partner to be with. So, this is why many times, courtship is very important.

Your best friend=Your good Wife

 

He that finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord!

FOREX UPDATE on AUD/JPY

We have made a good trade with the AUDJPY. This i believe is now a good time to begin to get ready to close this trade. If you made the trade when we began, pls start watching for over sold so that you can close this trade. I am not a day trader so sometimes when we push a trade, it might take more than a week before we begin to see results. I will like to believe that by April 7th, this trade would have entered over sold. This is the time to begin to watch this trade as I may be too busy to tell you its already on over sold. Thank you.

Regards. .....Allen Akinbolaji